To say my weight loss has slowed down to a crawl would be a huge understatement. I have been bummed because I gained three pounds while in Texas and it has taken forever for me to lose anything at all. I have hit plateaus in my weight loss before, but this one seems to be the only plateau that has brought me down. Mainly because this plateau has lasted almost a month.
That aside, I have good news today!
I lost the three pounds that I gained while in Texas. Furthermore, I have lost two additional pounds on top of that. I am down to 188. This brings my total weight lost to 110 pounds!
Whatever else is going on in my life, this is good news!
I celebrated this week by getting a mani-pedi and a hair cut. I took a day off of work. I had lunch with a friend who I have not seen in what feels like forever. I met another friend for coffee and reviewed a portion of a book he’s writing. I just had a pretty good week and losing a total of 110 pounds is a great way to cap it off.
This weekend promises to be fun as well. I am having some friends over for breakfast on Sunday. Tomorrow I am supposed to be doing a “girls night” with my sister and my sister-in-law and possibly my niece. Originally, the niece was not included, but she heard us talking about it and started crying because she wants to go to girls night too. For girls night, we plan on getting all dressed up in our nicest clothes and go out somewhere. I have a pretty dress for which I have no purpose other than I wanted it. And the “buy the cocktail dress…the party will come” theory is not working, so I need to make my own plans. I want to wear it somewhere before I shrink out of it. The dress is a size 16. I am already wearing a 14 in jeans, but still a 16 in shirts and dresses. So, I have the dress, the shoes, the mani-pedi, and haircut…time to party!
We thought about doing high tea, which is generally at 4pm. It could be fun if we find a place that has hats and gloves that we can use. I went to a place like that once for tea and it was fun. The five-year old would really enjoy something like that I think. Most likely, we will just do dinner. It’s hard to find a tea house that does gluten-free, egg and milk free sandwiches and treats.
It will probably be a pretty tame girls night out. None of us are huge drinkers. I cannot drink at all and my sister-in-law never really did drink. My sister is pretty light-weight and it only takes her one or two glasses of wine to knock her on her butt. Plus, we might have the kid with us. We all adore my niece and relish having her around, so I don’t see her presence as a barrier to fun, but Mommy may want a night off.
We’ll see how it goes. But in either case, I am glad that I am where I am with my weight loss. I am hoping to kick up the weight loss for the summer by joining a gym. I have not yet, but I hope to this weekend. I need to really start focusing on toning and strengthening. I have been walking a lot, which is good. But it’s time to kick it up a level.
Have a great weekend!
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George Washington’s Mansion Mount Vernon
What a busy weekend. A college friend came to Washington, DC to visit me. I have not seen Jerry since November when he visited me after my surgery. He came to town to help me get settled back into my apartment after I came back from my sister’s house. I stayed with my sister for a month after my weight loss surgery.
Cow at Mount Vernon
I have known Jerry since I was 20. We attended the University of Dayton together and we have been friends ever since. He has seen me through many ups and downs. He knew me when I was thinner, healthier, and of course much younger. He saw my health decline as I gained weight. And now he has seen me make an incredible comeback after my gastric by-pass surgery. He is so happy that I have started to regain my health. My return has allowed us to do quite a bit this weekend.
Saturday, we went to Mount Vernon and walked around for over three hours. We toured the grounds and then stood in line forever to see the mansion itself. The ride there was hilarious. Instead of staying on the GW Parkway and following the signs to Mount Vernon, we followed Siri’s directions on the GPS feature of my iPhone. We ended up in a subdivision. I have been to Mount Vernon before and I knew this was not right. So, we back-tracked to Route 1 and found the signs for Mount Vernon and viola, we found it. We did not follow Siri back home. Then we went to visit my brother, his wife, and daughter after we had some dinner. That was a lot of fun.
Wonder Woman Auntie Colleen
Then yesterday, he magnanimously allowed me to use him and his truck to pick up some furniture. We went to Unique and I bought a buffet for my dining area for $13.11. That’s right, you read that correctly, $13.11. It was originally $24.99 and they were having a 50% off sale. Amazing. Then we went to Goodwill and I bought another small book shelf and a wooden filing cabinet. Goodwill is a lot more expensive than Unique, but they had a better selection of stuff. Still, much cheaper than buying new, which I really cannot afford at the moment. Then we went back to my brother’s house and he gave me a dresser and a very large print for my walls. Jerry has been exceedingly generous with his time, truck, and willingness to move furniture around for me.
My niece enjoyed her two visits with her Uncle Junkle as she calls him. Well, OK, she called him that one time three years ago, and we thought it was so cute, we just continued to call him that. He generously gives her piggy-back rides and runs around playing games with her. He is as enthralled with her as the rest of us. We have all fallen under her spell and pretty much do whatever she wants. She has become our raison d’etre.
Today, we woke up, had breakfast, and took a nice long walk along the bike path in Shirlington. Then we had coffee before trekking back up the hill. We are hoping to see my sister later today. She has been in visiting in Pennsylvania with her husband’s family and my mom. They were supposed to be back last night. If they are not back yet, I am sure we will find something to do today. If nothing else, we can always head down to the Tidal Basin and walk around.
I am so lucky to have such great friends and family around me. They have all been so supportive of my efforts to regain my health through the gastric by-pass surgery. I could not have come this far without them, that is for certain. I will miss Jerry when he leaves tomorrow morning, but at least I know that the next time I see him, thanks to my weight loss, we will be able to have just as much fun as we did this weekend!
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Since my Dallas trip, I have really been suffering and in pain as I recover from the damage I did. I gained three pounds while in Dallas and I ate out for every meal. I had no choice but to eat out, but I did cheat at least twice and have things that I probably should have passed on.
Then when I returned, I had to buy all new vitamins. I decided to go ahead and start taking iron supplements in hopes to further combat the hair loss I have been suffering, which by the way, has slowed down tremendously.
As soon as I got back from my trip, I returned to my normal eating habits. It took me all week, but I lost the three pounds that I gained, but my stomach was still really bothering me. Then the other day, my stomach started feeling better. I also noticed that I forgot to take my iron pill. I made sure to take it yesterday though. As soon as I took it, the stomach pain came right back. Not only that, it felt like the iron tore right through me like Drano. My stomach burned and ached and I had to run to the bathroom three times. It was awful. Today, I did not take the iron and I have not had any stomach problems at all.
All this time, I thought it was just the food I ate in Dallas still bugging me. I was afraid I had really hurt myself. But no, it was the iron supplement.
I still want to take iron, but maybe I’ll only do it once or twice a week and take it with crackers or something so that it doesn’t rip my stomach apart again. Or maybe I’ll just eat more spinach. I like spinach. Can you say Chicken Saag?
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Tagged chicken, fat, fat chick, food, iron, saag, skinny, skinny girl, spinach, supplements, texas, vitamins
A couple of my friends called shenanigans on me last night. I wrote the other day about feeling uncomfortable with some of the new attention I have been receiving, especially increased attention from men whether it is compliments, touching, hugging, or being ogled by random men while on a business trip.
Well, last night after my writer’s group several people complimented me on my weight loss. I usually handle that well. Then a guy friend of mine, we’ll call him Bobby, came up to me and complimented the t-shirt I was wearing and said, “You look really good in green, you should wear it more often.” A really nice, neutral, fairly innocuous compliment. My response?
“Oh my hair is just a mess today! I look awful!”
When I said that, another friend, we’ll call her Joanna, jumped in and said, “Oh no, no, no, no, no! That is no way to respond to a compliment! How would you feel if I came up to you and said, ‘I don’t want you to get all bitchy on me Colleen, but you look really good in green.’ Rude huh? That’s basically what you just did to him!”
I turned back to my friend and sheepishly said, “Thank you, Bobby.”
Then a bunch of them spent the rest of the night complimenting me and then applauding when I said “thank you” instead of deflecting the compliment with a self-deprecating comment. One guy even told me I am simply going to have to get used to it because I am apparently a “looker.”
What can I say to that other than I know, right? 🙂
Anyway, this picture of me was taken last week at my training class in Texas, so it is fairly recent.
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OK, maybe I’m the center of the Colleeniverse, and blogging about myself everyday certainly reaffirms that notion. But I have conceded that I am not really the center of the rest of the universe.
There are two events taking place today that have absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with me, yet both are consuming every thought in my head and every ounce of my focus. One is of a celebratory nature, the other more solemn.
My niece, who is the actual center of the universe, is graduating from pre-K today and despite her request that I attend, I cannot be there to help her celebrate. If I could choose to be anywhere today, it would be with her. I will see her this weekend, and shower her with love, kisses, and presents, as aunties are wont to do, but I really wish I could be there today to cheer her on.
The second, more solemn event…a good friend and fellow writer is having surgery. He has been suffering from a horrible illness and today will determine if his treatment has been successful. I hope that has been.
So, instead of thinking of me, my general health, my weight loss progress, my mental health, and all the petty problems that plague my life, I am asking that everyone cheer for my niece and send good wishes to my friend.
Better yet, show your good wishes and buy one of his books or his music.
Writing About People, Places, & Things – Book
The Girl, The Drugs, & The Man Who Could Not Drink – Book
Cash & Carry – Music (also available on iTunes)
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I know that I have a lot to celebrate and be thankful for since my WLS surgery. I have lost 108 pounds. I have come down in size from a 30/32 to a 14/16. I can walk. I can breathe. I can walk and breathe at the same time. I have many new cute outfits. I can fit into old cute outfits that I have not worn in years. I have a lot to be grateful for.
I still find that it is a daily struggle to fight back the demons that took me to that awful place where I weighed over 300 pounds and felt that my life was not worth living. I still have to struggle against the same self-doubt and fear; the same desire to fill that void inside of me with all the wrong things; the paralyzing thought that I have wasted too much of my life; the fear that I have already done too much damage to my body and that no matter what I do now, it cannot be repaired; the fear that no matter what or how much I change, I will always be unloveable; that I will always be alone; that I will never progress any further in life than where I am now; that the evil voice inside my head and the people in my life who reinforce that voice are right, that I am nothing and not worth the effort.
The intellectual side of my brain knows that none of this is true, but some days it is harder to believe than others. I know tomorrow I will feel differently, but today the struggle continues.
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I have been using this App on my iPhone called My Fitness Pal. I typed in my current weight, my height, and my goal weight and it tells me how many calories I need each day to achieve that goal. Not only that, as I lose weight, I can update my current weight and the app will adjust my expected caloric intake appropriately.
You can enter any profile information you want; your measurements, your height, weight, goal, gender, date of birth, and activity level. Then each day, you enter the food you eat and any exercise you do.
I think this is a great app. Not only does it track your calories, it gives you a nutrition breakdown as well. You can see how much fat you are getting each day, protein, vitamins, minerals, cholesterol, sodium, and potassium. It’s pretty cool. It is also a social networking app. You can connect with other friends using this app and comment on each other’s progress and offer encouraging support.
I mostly use it to make sure that I am getting at least 1200 calories per day and to track my protein intake. I’m not so concerned with tracking every gram of fat or every calorie. I just need to make sure that I am getting enough per the goals set forth by my surgeon. The doctor wants me to get between 1200-1400 calories per day. Sometimes, that is difficult to do. My stomach just cannot handle that much food at one time, so it can be hard for me some days.
For instance today my goal is 1480 (per the app). I already have taken in 717 calories. I still have one more protein snack and dinner with 763 calories remaining. My protein drink is 170 calories. That will leave 593 calories for dinner. I doubt I will eat 593 calories at dinner. I plan to have spinach and chicken. I did a quick calculation using the app and that will end my day having consumed 1099 calories with 381 calories remaining. Then the app will yell at me that I am not getting enough calories.
I’ll be honest though, I have been having some stomach problems today, so if I do manage to eat dinner, I will consider it a good day. I think my tummy is still in rebellion over the hell I put it through last week.
That aside, if you are trying to lose weight, I definitely suggest this app. They have it for iPhone, iPad, and Android, so no excuses people! Get busy…and if you want to connect with me, my user name for this app is morgaine84.
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